The Lot of Eros: Unveiling the Astrological Key to Passion and Desire

At the Wilfred Hazelwood Clinic, we believe that astrology offers a multifaceted lens through which to understand the human experience. Among the many fascinating elements of a natal chart, the Lot of Eros stands out as a powerful indicator of one's approach to passion, desire, and romantic attraction. Our lead therapist, Martyn J. Shrewsbury, often refers to this lot as "the spark that ignites the soul's fire."

What is the Lot of Eros?

The Lot of Eros, also known as the Part of Eros, is one of the Arabic Parts or lots in astrology. These lots are mathematically derived points in a natal chart that offer additional insights into various aspects of life.

Calculation and Meaning

The Lot of Eros is calculated using the following formula:

Diurnal Chart (Sun above the Ascendant-Descendant axis): Ascendant + Venus - Mars
Nocturnal Chart (Sun below the Ascendant-Descendant axis): Ascendant + Mars - Venus

As Martyn often explains to our clients, "The Lot of Eros is like a cosmic love potion, blending the energies of your rising sign, Venus, and Mars to reveal your unique recipe for passion and desire."

The Mythology of Eros

To fully appreciate the Lot of Eros, it's helpful to understand its mythological roots:

Greek Mythology: Eros was the god of love, sexuality, and attraction. He was often depicted as a young winged god armed with a bow and arrows to inspire love and desire.
Primordial Force: In some early Greek cosmogonies, Eros was considered a primordial deity, one of the fundamental forces that shaped the universe.
Roman Equivalent: In Roman mythology, Eros was known as Cupid, maintaining similar associations with love and desire.

This rich mythological background infuses the Lot of Eros with deep symbolic meaning related to the fundamental forces of attraction and passion in our lives.

Interpreting the Lot of Eros in the Natal Chart

The placement of the Lot of Eros in your natal chart can provide profound insights into your romantic nature and approach to passion:

Sign Placement: Indicates the qualities and energies that spark your desire and attract you to others.
- For example, Eros in Taurus might suggest a strong appreciation for sensual pleasures and stability in love.
- Eros in Gemini could indicate attraction to intellectual stimulation and variety in relationships.
House Placement: Shows the areas of life where passion and desire play a significant role.
- Eros in the 7th house might emphasize the importance of passion in committed partnerships.
- Eros in the 10th house could suggest a strong connection between passion and career or public life.
Aspects: Connections to other planets can reveal how easily you express and experience passion.
- A harmonious aspect to Venus might indicate a natural ease with expressing affection and desire.
- A challenging aspect to Saturn could suggest the need to overcome fears or restrictions in matters of passion.

The Lot of Eros in Relationship Astrology

At the Wilfred Hazelwood Clinic, we find the Lot of Eros particularly useful in relationship astrology:

Synastry: Comparing the Lot of Eros between two charts can reveal areas of magnetic attraction and passionate connection.
Composite Charts: The Lot of Eros in a composite chart can show the nature of passion within the relationship itself.
Transit Analysis: Tracking transits to the Lot of Eros can highlight periods of heightened romantic energy or transformative experiences in matters of passion.

Practical Applications in Astrological Therapy

We use the Lot of Eros in several therapeutic contexts:

Self-Understanding: Exploring your Lot of Eros can provide insights into your deepest desires and what truly ignites your passion.
Relationship Counseling: Understanding the Lot of Eros can help couples navigate differences in expressing and experiencing passion.
Personal Growth: Recognizing the lessons of Eros can lead to a more fulfilling emotional and romantic life.
Creativity and Inspiration: The Lot of Eros isn't just about romantic passion – it can also indicate where you find creative inspiration and zest for life.

Case Study: Reigniting the Flame

(Note: Names and identifying details have been changed to protect client privacy)

Sarah came to us feeling a lack of passion in her long-term relationship. Her Lot of Eros was in Scorpio in the 5th house, suggesting a need for deep emotional connection and creative expression in matters of the heart.

Through our sessions, Sarah learned to tap into her Scorpionic Eros energy. She began exploring creative projects with her partner and initiated more profound, intimate conversations. "Understanding my Lot of Eros helped me reconnect with my passionate nature and bring that energy back into my relationship," Sarah shared.

Embracing Your Erotic Nature

Here are some strategies for working with your Lot of Eros:

Self-Reflection: Meditate on the sign and house placement of your Lot of Eros. How does it resonate with your experiences of passion and desire?
Creative Expression: Use the energy of your Lot of Eros to fuel creative projects or hobbies that ignite your passion.
Mindful Relationships: Bring awareness to how you express and receive passion in your relationships. Are you honoring your Eros energy?
Ritual and Intention: Create rituals or set intentions aligned with your Lot of Eros to cultivate more passion in your life.

Conclusion: Dancing with Desire

The Lot of Eros offers a unique perspective on our capacity for passion, desire, and romantic attraction. It reminds us that these energies are not just personal preferences, but cosmic forces that connect us to the very essence of life and creation.

At the Wilfred Hazelwood Clinic, we believe that understanding and embracing your Lot of Eros can lead to a more passionate, fulfilling life. As Martyn often concludes our sessions, "When you align with your Eros energy, you're not just falling in love – you're falling in love with life itself."

Are you curious about what your Lot of Eros reveals about your passionate nature? Book a session with us and embark on a journey to unlock the depths of your desire and ignite the spark of your soul.